Find Them Faster — 1:1 Dating Program
Who you are:
The idea of starting life with your person lights you up. While you’re grateful for the lessons learned while dating, you’re ready for different results. You want a partnership that feels secure and stimulating — a romantic partner that feels like an exhale and an accelerant. On your way there, you want unshakable self-trust in the choices you make in your dating life (and when you invest time in someone). You’re growth-minded, and value having someone in your corner to be a bounce board, advocate and coach.
How it works: Based on where you’re at in the dating process, we will hand craft our sessions in a way that collapses your timeline to the right partnership.
PHASE 1: CLEARING - Unpack past chapters and honor them by integrating learnings and leaving patterns that don’t serve you (or your future partner) behind. We’ll identify any residue from former relationships and surface any limiting beliefs or blockers that stand in the way of your full availability for love.
PHASE 2: CLARITY - The healthiest relationships bring you closer to yourself - we’ll anchor to the truest version of who you are and where you’re going. Receive personal readings of handpicked profiling assessments, and hone in on what matters most when meeting new connections. (Re)Develop self trust and remove the doubt in your decisions… your “no”s become easy because your “yes” is so strong.
PHASE 3: CO-CONSPIRE - I’ll be your unbiased ally to help keep you clear, centered, positive, and progress-driven throughout the dating process. You’ll know what questions to ask to gauge alignment, and what to do if you perceive a gap in who they are and what you want. No more figuring out what to do in a silo - I got you.
What’s Included:
(1) 90-minute Relationship Roadmap call; a deep dive for the Clearing phase and alignment on our journey for the next three months.
(6) 60-minute 1:1 calls, bi-weekly; Clarity phase at your pace, then moving to flexible format; including but not limited to deep dive processing, situational coaching, date debriefs, refinement of what you’re looking for, bespoke date designs etc
Voice note support for emerging questions, processing or coaching as you interact with potential connections
Done-for-you tools that help keep you aligned with what you want most:
Your personalized “gut check” reference doc - ditch the “ideal partner” checklist (and all of the unintended consequences)
Tailored question list to gauge alignment on dates
Examples of kind closures for connections that aren’t aligned
Personalized pre-date ritual and post-date reflection process
Addition to matchbook
3-month membership to full access substack
(2) Optional monthly group coaching calls: one for date debriefs, and one for date design ideas
Access to my done-for-you date design “Datrix” resource: plan easeful dates that coax out more of what you want to explore with your prospective partner
Complete archive of paid subscriber articles
Bonuses:
(1) 1:1 session with an expert practitioner; JC will hand pick a pre-vetted modality that will support you on your journey based on what’s coming up for you. i.e. Internal Family Systems (IFS), somatic therapy, sex therapy, erotic blueprint, ancestral clearing, etc
Direct introductions to matches that already exist in JC’s database (or enter within the 90 day program period) if/when aligned
Duration: 90 days | February - April
Payment plans available.